Sex can be very intimate, particularly if you have a strong emotional connection with the person you are engaging in sexual activities with. It can make you feel vulnerable, and this can sometimes mean shying away from making suggestions on what you would like to try in the bedroom.

However, it is important to remember that sex is about having a good time together, and being playful when it comes to your sexual escapades is all part of that. While you should always communicate with your partner first to make sure everyone is comfortable and consents to your suggestions, if you do want to make your sex life more fun, give one or more of the following a try.

1.     Role-playing

Role-playing can be an excellent way for you and your partner to get out of your heads and explore certain sexual fantasies. Everyone needs an escape once in a while, and pretending to be someone else and taking on a new character in the bedroom can be a great way to do this. You might even find that stepping into a fantasy character’s mindset can help boost your confidence a little as they can become a kind of alter-ego for you.

2.     Take Sex Out of the Bedroom

Another way you can make sex more playful is if you try to take it outside of the bedroom more often. This could mean being intimate in another part of the house, such as on the couch or even in the shower. It might also mean spontaneously booking into a hotel room for a night or going on a romantic weekend getaway.

Switching up the locations of your lovers’ trysts can keep your sex life feeling fresh and exciting. This is a very simple but effective way of making sex more playful, and you might even find that it becomes more spontaneous as a result as well.

3.     Introduce Sex Toys

Sex toys can be a great option if you’re looking to spice up your sex life and make it more playful. There are all kinds of options for you to explore, with some ideal for solo use if you want to enjoy some intimate alone time or ones that are designed for couples that can be great fun with your partner. You can find a wide range of toys at places like or other adult stores.

4.     Try Some Games

As well as toys, you could also explore playing some games with your partner as part of your sexual routine. There are various adult games designed for this use, where you might pick a card and have to perform a certain action on your partner or perhaps whisper something naughty in their ear. This can be a great way to make your sex life more playful and perhaps even allow you to discover some new turn-ons you never knew would work for you!

Sex is a great way to connect with your partner intimately, and making it more playful can help strengthen your bond. If you would like to make sex more fun, consider the suggestions above and test out one or two of them.

Miley Jax